You have your
educational goals. One of these dominican ladies that you
are in a relationship with has similar
Couples share and support each other in their
goals. You each have your struggles.
You are the one in the relationship with the greater financial resources. What is so hard to understand?
The dominican lady sees herself in a “progressing” relationship with you. You empathize with her on the phone. But then you balk at empathizing with your wallet–because you haven’t physically met her? Hundreds of dominican ladies travel half-way around the world to be with their intended, without having ever met the person.
How much assurance or security do you think that physically meeting a person actually provides? People living together in the same house carry on affairs and do all sorts of things behind the backs of their partners all of the time. Proximity, or the length of time of knowing some one, does not guarantee commitment, faithfulness, or any other virtue.
Either the dominican women that you are communicating with are of good character, or they are not.
And that, of course, IS the problem. But, it comes with the territory, and we all knew that going in when we
signed up for the adventure. And remember, in their eyes, the same thing applies to you.
These Dominican girls are all looking to see whether or not you are the person that you are representing yourself to be.
Meet them in person?